I'm sorry, I can't be mad at men for this. It's pretty well established in my mind that a person who will cheat will cheat given the opportunity...whether man or woman. More often than not though, it's some woman or women involving themselves with married/involved men. Here we are, letting ourselves be the victim. I say STOP IT.
Enough with the being a victim in things already, take a look at the situation and go hmm, if this is a person of substance and if they truly respect themselves and others they do not willingly harm and deceive others. In this case I don't really mean this to the wife as it seems she was unaware, but to the other ladies involved. If this man cared about you at all, he would not act so disrespectfully towards you and other people like the aforementioned wife. So ladies if we truly are enlightened and on level with men, we don't allow ourselves to be victims. I know this'll piss some of you off and no, I am not saying that this issue does not become more complicated with specific circumstances.
Instead, let's just be more logical and respectful to each other. Men are the creatures who've convinced us that there is some scarcity out there and we have to let ourselves be the fool to get what we want and we know that just isn't so. Show some love to your sisters and don't let any man put you into a position that can only end badly for you and them.
All people of all sexes must learn that their heart and desires must represent their wishes and dreams, not their shortest term desires or needs. Deceiving is not a way to earn the love of others or to journey toward your dreams. Still it is a hard path and one which requires the whole of your heart and soul to do well.
ReplyDeleteJohn and Alisa - Peace to you Rhiannon on your journey, our blessings on you always.